Friday Favorites -- 11.9.18

One of the strangest things about the internet, to me, is how many people want to know what _____ I am wearing in photos. haha. I mean I get it, I think that too when I’m scrolling — I just never thought people would wonder those things about me. But here we are. So here are some of the things I’m wearing, and some of the things I’m really loving this week. :)

MVMT Sunglasses

I LOVE these glasses. I got the matte black, which is really striking — I’ve gotten tons of compliments. It’s also my first pair of polarized sunglasses — and wow, what was I thinking not buying these before?? Especially in Colorado. I drive into the sunrise every morning for work, and these are truly amazing. They’re a little pricier than sunglasses I’ve had in the past, but I can say after a few weeks of wear, they are totally worth it. Check them out here. And use my code: emilyventures15 for $15 off your order :)

Fireplace channel

If you watch my Instagram stories, first — sorry haha, and second — you’ve probably seen my love of the fireplace channel. I don’t have a fireplace of my own, but this honestly does the trick. I looked it up on demand one day and never looked back. I’m the type of person that likes a little background noise so the cackling sounds are perfect. I can clean, read, whatever, and have a little ambiance. It’s especially great on a snowy day. Making the most of what you have. :)

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Outdoor Voices Set

Everyone is hip to Outdoor Voices now right? I can’t tell if it’s everywhere, or if I just think that because I spend so much time on their website that all of my ads are targeted towards them. Hmm. Well if you aren’t, you gotta get on it. Outdoor Voices is a woman founded company that has a great mission, doesn’t airbrush, and has the coolest gear. The fabrics are awesome, the styles are original (although now often cheaply imitated) and they honestly just feel good to wear. I’m not in any way sponsored by them (although, hey call me :) haha) I just really love my pieces, and want everyone to know. My leggings are here, and crop is here.

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Christmas movies

Gosh, I’m really into a lot of sitting on the couch this week aren’t I? Haha… but seriously I kind of am. The time change hit me hard, and then a cold hit me even harder. This week has mostly been about getting home from work, putting on something cozy, and going to sleep early. In between there somewhere I have watched two Hallmark Christmas Movies. A little early, I know, but I can’t help it. If you need an escape of any kind, this is the way to do it. They are so unrealistic, and so predictable — but I love that about them. It transports you to a different state, you don’t have to pay too close of attention, and it just makes me feel good. Everything doesn’t have to be so serious. What’s your favorite Christmas movie?

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The Dream Podcast

I’ve just caught up on this podcast, and it is really interesting — basically just the topic. It’s about MLMs (multi-level marketing) companies and it really is fascinating. I won’t give too much away, but if you’re wondering about all the things your friends are selling on Facebook, and/or need a new podcast to binge, give this one a shot.

Thanks for reading :)

#jessdaytuesday

"Take chances, make mistakes, get messy." - Ms. Frizzle

I love celebrating. Every day in my classroom we celebrate one of those weird National Days (today is National Food Day btw) and I have holiday decor for all seasons in my apartment down to cocktail napkins. So it's no surprise that I have made up my own weekly holiday - Jess Day Tuesday. More commonly known as #jessdaytuesday. I've gotten a lot of questions about what the heck this is, why and what I am celebrating etc. So here is the history and background of this great day.

I've always loved to theme dress. I frequently think of my outfits as "looks" (others think of them as "getup's" yikes)  and try to dress for the occasion at hand. My first foray into whimsical work dresses came with this math print dress: 

I'm a math teacher so this was an obvious purchase. But the interesting part of the dress isn't the dress - it's the feeling I get when I am wearing it. 

A lot of research has been done on the affect of clothing on our lives and self-perception. I've always known that when I look better I feel better, but there is some serious science to back it up. According to a study cited in the Wall Street Journal article "Why Dressing for Success Leads to Success" wearing nicer clothes than required raises confidence levels, affects how others perceive you, and boosts levels of abstract thinking - which is the thinking of successful leaders and executives. 

Another interesting study came from the Journal of Experimental Psychology and found that clothing affects our performance through "enclothed cognition" - a type of embodied cognition that basically means that the clothing you wear affects your cognitive process and your behaviors mirror your expectations of how someone wearing that clothing would behave. In one of the experiments,

"subjects who donned white coats that they thought belonged to doctors performed better on tests than those who wore street clothes, or those who thought the coats were associated with artists. Their heightened focus was evident only when subjects actually put on the coat in question (not merely when they were in the same room)."

So what does all this have to do with whimsical dresses on Tuesday? Well, the math dress made me take on the role of the most important teacher in history of course: Ms. Frizzle! Ms. Frizzle is the teacher in the Magic School Bus series and according to Wikipedia (and me) she is,

"eccentric and a bit strange, The Friz is intelligent, kind, resourceful, happy, funny, supportive, loving and somewhat motherly. She loves making jokes revolving around the lesson she teaches, even if she is the only one laughing. A redhead, she wears wacky clothing that reflects the subject of each adventure and earrings that glow before a field trip begins." 

If I had to be described as a teacher (or just as a person really), that is pretty much word for word what I would want to be said. And according to the enclothed cognition phenomena (and my own anecdotal evidence) the dresses help! 

So why isn't the holiday Ms. Frizzle Tuesday? Well you see that doesn't rhyme and things like that matter to me. :) Also, another fictional whimsical dressing teacher I admire is Jess Day - a character on New Girl - and since New Girl is on Tuesdays (and it all rhymes) a holiday was born! What started as a funny hashtag has turned into a vital and important part of my week.

So here is my challenge to you: think about the way your clothes make you feel and dress the way that makes you feel great/powerful/confident whatever. Maybe create your own day!! Post a selfie without shame. It's not frivolous and it's not shallow - it's fun! And it's science :)

And let me know how it goes :)